You’ve finally got a date with that special woman you’ve been admiring for a while. What’s next? The first date is crucial for making a good impression, so it’s important to get it right. Whether you’re planning a fun outdoor adventure or a fancy dinner at a nice restaurant, there are some basic etiquette rules to follow. While it’s okay to relax as the relationship progresses, making a good first impression is key. Most women prefer genuine gestures over extravagant ones. If you’re curious about what women want from men on a first date, Mensome has the answers!
Old fashioned chivalry
Should I pull out her chair if she asks? Should I hold the door open? What if she wants to pay half? It can be confusing for men because some women don’t like it when guys do things for them. But here’s a secret: when a man treats a woman with respect on the first date, she really appreciates it. Women are offended by sexism, not by a man being polite and considerate.
Put forth an effort
The right clothes depend on where you’re going. It’s nice to see a man take care with his appearance, no matter what he wears. Your outfit doesn’t always have to be fancy. For a first date, you might go to an apple orchard or an art gallery, so you don’t need fancy clothes. But it’s good to look nice by wearing clothes that suit you and taking care of yourself, like combing your hair and shaving. It’s like how women put on makeup – it’s better if it looks natural. If you don’t make any effort at all, the woman might not think the date is worth it.
Be Receptive
During first-date talks, people are just starting to learn about each other. It’s a time to discover new things about each other and the world. It’s okay to have your own opinions, but it’s not nice to ignore what others have to say. It can be a big mistake if you speak badly about something or a group and then find out your date supports it.
Imagine if a man makes fun of “silly vegans” at a café, and then his date asks if they have vegan food. That wouldn’t make for a successful first date, right?
Make her feel important
During the first date, many people are shy or take time to open up. If you’re wondering how to make a woman talk on the first date, ask her questions and listen to her stories instead of talking nonstop. Also, let her choose her order and preferences if you’re going to a restaurant or bar. This makes her feel special and important on the date.
Always follow up
Some first encounters are great. You’re excited to see the person again and know there will be another date. In those cases, more communication will happen. Give her a hug as you leave and say you had a great time. But what about less-than-perfect first dates? Even if it was bad or you’re unsure about meeting again, you don’t have to say so. It can be awkward to suggest a second date, but letting her know you enjoyed meeting her can make her feel better. It’s nice to show gratitude afterward. It respects the time she invested in taking a chance with you. Sometimes, an apology might be needed. This can turn an “OK date” into a “great date” because it shows you care.
So these are tips for a successful first date. Now that you know what women expect, put on your shoes and meet the woman of your dreams!